Thursday, December 4, 2008

Dear April,

Anonymous is this stupid person that stuck her big fat nose in my business and thinks she can say anything she wants about people she doesn't know. I assume she is a she because men don't meddle like women do (that's one point for men). I'm sure anonymous will now blast me for that too, but that would be assuming that she reads my blog on a regular basis, which she doesn't or she would know me and would not be so rude. Anonymous is a blog-stocker that I assume is LDS and was searching the net for uplifting spiritual information and wrongly found my post titled "From the mouth of a CTR 6". She then decided to judge me and the fact that I announced to my reading public (all 5 of you!) that Mo was pregnant. Do you think if I thought for a moment that Monique didn't want me to spill the beans I would have? No, duh. But PUH-LEASE!!! If your 6 year old knows, the whole world is bound to find out quick enough and I happened to have that totally cute picture of Jaxen's cheesy grin to announce it to the world. What's a girl to do?! I was happy for them and I thought Mo was hesitant to say anything to people while at the same time wanting everyone to know.

So yesterday "anonymous" posts a comment and says:

"Just looking around and thought I would put my two sence in, seeing how you don't seem to have a problem with it yourself! I would never want you as a friend! How mean to share someone else secret like that! May God but a lease on your mouth because you don't seem to think it though in your head. So the filter needs to be in your mouth! Have a great day!"



I happened to read it at Crystal's house because she was trying to help me out with something on my blog and I was busting a gut at the nerve this woman has. Crystal said she would have been mad. I couldn't believe that someone would randomly make a comment like that and I thought it was hilarious. All I could think is, "are you kidding me?" Who are you woman? I have a lot of judgmental things I could say about this person but you know, I apparently need a filter on my mouth because I don't think things through in my head. (At least I think that was what she was trying to say)

Anyway, I think it may be time to go private. You will have to pass a spelling test and common sense test to be invited. This is just dumb.

My only regret is if this anonymous person really is someone I know and/or if Mo really didn't want me to tell. I thought I knew her well enough, but maybe not. Sorry Mo. I love you.

9 comments:

Monique said...

Hey, I got my jab at you on my blog, and you took it with stride. :)

No hard feelings here. But, to make it up to me, you can send me girlie vibes. ;)

April said...

Oh, um, read your email. I've been parnoid. I'll leave it at that.

H said...

Mo, all I've got is girlie vibes so you can have them all. (Bill will appreciate that)

April, what in the heck are your talkin' about?!

Bridget said...

Wow!

Pam said...

Ok well i learned something today! I had no idea that was Jaxson so cute smile. So congrads to Monique! And that the lady who can't seem to reveal herself, she needs to take her own word and live by them! She needs to learn how to filter. You don't speak to people who you don't know, and its your BLOG you do and say what you want.

tempe turley said...

H,

Don't worry too much about it. Can you imagine if you were one of those professional bloggers??? I'm sure they get flamed all sorts of ways. It's the hazards of the internet environment. Kind of a supped freeway. e.g., It's much easier to give someone the finger on the highway as you zoom by them then it is if you were walking past someone on the sidewalk.

It's much, much, much easier to leave an anonymous flame on someone's blog...

I've also been flamed once so far on my blog, so I consider myself lucky... (Also very unread :-( )...

proud parents said...

You scared me for a second! I thought you were talking about me! I sometimes post as anonymous if I'm not already logged into my blog (I forget my name and password).

It makes me laugh and get mad at the same time--what if it is someone you know? Why don't they have the guts to talk to you direct?

H said...

Scott, again with the silly antics? Do you know about this highway finger flipping from experience? Perhaps on the 101 coming home from work I would imagine. I'm totally kidding and appreciate the analogy.

Proud parents, who are you?! I see your name all over my friend's blogs but your profile doesn't tell me anything. I'm glad you're not my anonymous writer and agree that people need to have the guts to talk to your face (or write to your blog picture?!).

Crystal said...

Anyone who knows you would never say they wouldn't want to be your friend. You are a fabulous friend to too many people to count. This person just didn't get your post. I love you H! Don't ever filter for anyone!